Everything You Need to Know About Sex Toys

Everything You Need to Know About Sex Toys

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Sexual health remains one of the highly overlooked and stigmatized aspects of health. However, recent years have seen sex toys gaining much attention and becoming a greater part of the discussion around the enhancement of pleasure, intimacy, and self-discovery. 

That said, sex toys are now a part of people’s everyday lives, and they use them for several reasons. They have a reputation for making both men and women explore their bodies and hit upon the right pleasure points to increase enjoyment.  

If you’re new to sex toys and want to learn more, you have it all recapped in this beginner’s guide to sex toys. Read on and learn something new! 

What are Sex Toys? 

The first question you’ll need an answer to if you’re a beginner is: what are sex toys? For starters, these are ‘objects’ designed to stimulate the erogenous zones of your body with the end goal of increasing pleasure.  

There’s a great variety of sex toys on the market, each designed for a particular set of people. Understanding each of them will lead you to what best suits your needs.  

Here is a detailed breakdown: 

  • Vibrators: Vibrators are the most universal tool for sexual stimulation. They come in so many shapes, including bullet, wand, or rabbit. According to statistics, 60% of women reported significant improvement in sexual pleasure with vibrators. 

  • Couples’ Toys: These are toys designed to be used together, heightening intimacy in their use together. Examples include dildos, vibrating rings and remote-controlled devices.  

  • Prostate Massagers: Prostate toys are men-only sexual arousal objects designed to stimulate the prostate gland, an area so sensitive it is capable of inducing really intense orgasms. 

  • BDSM Accessories: Soft handcuffs, ties and blindfolds are good beginning points for beginners in BDSM. They’re known to promote trust and communication within relationships. Arguably, 50% of new users reported that BDSM helped them improve their communication and increase their partners’ trust.  

  • Dildos: These dildos come in many different shapes and materials and can be used by a single person or with a couple. Also, 30% of users reported that using a dildo makes them much more open to new experiences. 

According to the research published by the NCBI, sex toys, especially those used for genital vibration, are a potential treatment for sexual arousal difficulties and pelvic floor dysfunction. They could improve sexual satisfaction and enhance the quality of a relationship.  

 

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How Do Sex Toys Help? 

Sex toys can be used for many various reasons. Some of the common benefits are as follows: 

  • Sexual Exploration: Sex toys can be used to find out what each person likes, allowing them to understand their bodies better. This kind of knowledge can further enhance sexual activity in general. 

  • Increase Intimacy: If you’re a couple, sex toys bring new ways of connecting. For example, the Pointed Pleasure Ring is a male sex toy designed to heighten sensations and enhance performance. You can use it for a more intense and unforgettable experience for you and your partner. 

  • Overcoming Sexual Obstacles: Other toys have been designed to help remedy erectile dysfunction, climax difficulties, or problems with pelvic floor strength. Also, there are toys designed for spontaneous moments of indulgence—you only need to add water-based lube to achieve sensational stimulation. 

Debunking Common Myths about Sex Toys 

 

Using sex toys is associated with myths that every beginner needs to know. Here are some of the most common myths about sexual health and intimate toys: 

  • Myth: Vibrators are only for females. 

Truth: Vibrators can add a new dimension to shared experiences between couples. In fact, 25% of men use vibrators as part of shared experiences in their sexual adventures. 

  • Myth: BDSM is for experts. 

Truth: Beginner-friendly equipment, like blindfolds, makes BDSM perfect for everyone. Statistics have shown that 40% of new BDSM users would prefer soft, gentle accessories. 

  • Myth: Condoms aren’t reliable. 

Truth: When used correctly, Condoms guarantee up to 98% effectiveness in protecting your sexual health.  

  • Myth: Dildos are uncomfortable. 

Truth: The right fit promises comfort and a good experience. In fact, 75% of new dildo users report a positive experience after continued use. 

 

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Safety Tips to Consider for Sex Toys 

While sex toys are generally safe, there’s more to do to achieve safe and responsible use. Follow these tips to ensure your toys serve you as intended for maximum satisfaction: 

  • Cleanliness Is Key: Wash the toys with warm water and a mild, non-toxic cleaner before and after use. Overall, silicone toys are relatively low maintenance, while porous materials require more care. 

  • Proper Lubrication: Always play with your toys with a compatible lubricant. For silicone toys, the best option would be water-based lubricants, while lubricants with silicone are likely to degrade the material. 

  • Do Not Share without Protection: Toys should be shared with a condom or deep cleaning between uses to avoid bacteria and other infections. Data shows that condoms are one of the easiest ways to ensure sexual health and grant up to 98% efficacy in preventing STIs. 

  • Check for Damage: Regularly check your toys for fissures, tears, and other signs of wear and tear. This is crucial to your sexual health as damaged toys can harbor harmful bacteria or cause genital irritation. 

Final Thoughts 

Self-discovery and intimacy are all hidden in the exploration of sex toys. They are the secret to knowing your body, the right spots to hit, and how to quench some of your sexual fantasies.   

Once you understand the types, benefits, and safe ways of use, you can explore sex toys confidently and transform your sexual life along the way.  

Remember, experimenting, talking, and, most importantly, having fun are the keys to maximum sexual pleasure with sex toys. 

 

 

 

 

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