I'm trying to raise money to bring my daughter and her new husband home. My daughter took a GAP year to figure things out after high. Yes, I encourage her to relax for a year. She went to visit her family in another country and ended up getting married to her long time best friend. They both were excepted into ivy league schools. I'm very proud of them both. However one school is $230,000 and the other is $310,000. Way more than I make. Plus I need to pay his fees for coming into this country. I never knew coming to the state costs so much money.